And another long-standing brick-wall crumbles. I have long
been troubled that two of my ancestors never married, despite them having at
least five children together, and possibly as many as nine, all of whom were
baptised in the local parish church. What reason could have prevented them
marrying: belief or some impediment under civil or canon law?
The eventual breakthrough revealed a very detailed story
from the early 19th Century, one involving historical events of the
time, but how much of the story was reliable? At what point does a lack of
conflicting evidence allow a solid case to be made from indirect evidence.
Figure 1 – Across the sea.
Margaret Hallam
My mother’s mother’s mother’s mother’s mother was a Sarah
Hallam, born c1826 in the village of Epperstone, Nottinghamshire. The baptism
register explicitly gave her parents as Margaret Hallam and Thomas Meads, but
this couple were not married and never bothered to afterwards.
In fact, Margaret had five children with Thomas over a span
of twelve years, and a further four children before then where no father was
identified.
Name
|
Baptism
|
Mother
|
Father
|
Father Occ.
|
PR/BT Notes [a]
|
James
|
6 Apr 1807
|
Margaret HALLAM
|
|
|
“Base”. Both forenames
(Margaret & Peggy) given
|
Mary
|
9 Oct 1808
|
Margaret HALLAM
|
|
|
“Base”
|
Henry
|
11 Jun 1810
|
Margaret HALLAM
|
|
|
“Base”
|
Charlotte
|
31 Jan 1813
|
Margaret HALLAM
|
|
|
PR says “Base”. BT says
“Spinster”
|
Elizabeth
|
23 Feb 1819
|
Peggy HALLAM
|
Tho MEADS
|
Frame Work Knitter
|
“Base daughter”
|
Richd.
|
2 Mar 1821
|
Margaret HALLAM
|
Thomas MEAD
|
Frame Work Knitter
|
|
Robert
|
12 Nov 1823
|
Peggy HALLAM
|
Thos MEADS
|
F.W.K.
|
“Base”
|
Sarah
|
15 Feb 1826
|
Peggy HALLAM
|
Thomas MEADS
|
F.W.K.
|
“B. daughter”
|
James
|
11 Jul 1831
|
Margaret HALLAM
|
Thomas MEADS
|
Fwk
|
|
Table 1 – Children of Margaret/Peggy
Hallam baptised at Epperstone.[1]
[a] A visit to the
Nottinghamshire Archive was made during 2013 to access original Parish
Registers (PR) and Bishops’ Transcripts (BT) for this parish in order to check
for any helpful annotation associated with these entries.
The ambiguity in their surnames spilled over into their
later life with their choice — and even that of Margaret — varying from census
to census.
Thomas Meads (also Meades, Made(s), Maids, Meeds) was baptised
1 Mar 1772 at Epperstone Holy Cross to John and Alice.[2] His
father, John Meads, had married Alice Tomlinson on 27 Apr 1768 at Epperstone Holy
Cross, and the family were clearly local to Epperstone.[3]
Thomas married Martha Beiton on 9 Apr 1792 at Trowel St.
Helen,[4]
about 14 miles WSW of Epperstone, and they baptised the following children:
Name
|
Baptism
|
Mother
|
Father
|
Father Occ.
|
Parish
|
John
|
8 Jul 1792
|
Martha
|
Thomas MEADS
|
|
Trowell St. Helen
|
Mary [a]
|
26 Jan 1794
|
Martha
|
Thomas MADES
|
|
Epperstone Holy Cross
|
Joseph
|
31 May 1795
|
Martha
|
Thomas MEADS
|
|
ditto
|
Martha
|
5 Aug 1798
|
Martha
|
Thos MADES
|
|
ditto
|
Hannah
|
5 Dec 1804
|
Martha
|
Thos MEADS
|
|
ditto
|
Thos
|
11 Feb 1807
|
Martha
|
Thos MEADS
|
|
ditto
|
Alice
|
17 Jan 1813
|
Martha
|
Thomas MEADS
|
Frame Work Knitter
|
ditto
|
William
|
26 Feb 1815
|
Martha
|
Thomas MEADS
|
F.W.K.
|
ditto
|
Table 2 – Children of Thomas Meads
and Martha Beiton.[5]
[a] "England Births and
Christenings, 1538-1975", database, FamilySearch
(https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:JMDK-5QS : 30 Dec 2014, accessed 7 Jun
2017), Mary Mades [Meads], 26 Jan 1794; citing EPPERSTONE, NOTTINGHAM, ENGLAND;
FHL microfilm 503,492, 504,062, 504,069, 504,093; this entry is not found in
the NottsFHS-Baptisms source.
Martha died aged 49 and was buried on 8 Dec 1815 at Epperstone
Holy Cross.[6]
The closeness of this date to the baptism of her last child (William) suggests
it may have been related to some post-natal condition; she was certainly a good
age for childbirth.
It will not have escaped anyone’s notice that the earlier
four children of Margaret Hallam — the ones with no recorded father — were
conceived while Thomas Meads was still married to Martha, and almost entirely
between Martha’s children Thomas and Alice. It is very likely that they were also his
children but it would have been inappropriate to say this in the register. We’ll
come back to this later.
Possible reasons for them not getting married were:
- Not of the Anglican faith — Thomas was baptised and previously married in an Anglican church. All of the children of Thomas and Margaret, plus the ones attributed only to Margaret, were also baptised in an Anglican church.
- Related to each other — I could find no evidence of this.
- Thomas already married — Thomas was a widower and so this would not have been a reason.
- Margaret already married — I could find no previous marriage for Margaret, but I could also find no evidence of her birth or baptism.
This latter possibility was a strong pointer to Margaret
having been born with a different surname, and possibly having been married
before. This was my initial hypothesis, some years ago, but although I’d
identified a few candidate marriages I gave up on the idea as they all seemed too
weak.
But then I encountered Geoffrey Martin, a historian (a fact
he understandably emphasised) who was correcting transcription errors on the
same Ancestry records that I was. He had already looked at Margaret Hallam’s
origin and concluded that she was previously married. In fact the census
extract we’d both updated provided the missing details to confirm this.
Name
|
Sex
|
Age
|
Birth year
|
Occupation
|
Place of birth
|
John Pacey
|
M
|
35
|
1806
|
Ag. Lab.
|
Nottinghamshire
|
Elizabeth Pacey
|
F
|
35
|
1806
|
|
ditto
|
Hannah Pacey
|
F
|
7
|
1834
|
|
ditto
|
Ann Pacey
|
F
|
11m
|
1841
|
|
ditto
|
Margaret Hallam
|
F
|
45
|
1796
|
|
ditto
|
James Hallam
|
M
|
10
|
1831
|
|
ditto
|
Harriet Pearson
|
F
|
20
|
1821
|
|
ditto
|
Gervis Barratt
|
M
|
20
|
1821
|
|
ditto
|
Thomas Herrek
|
M
|
14
|
1827
|
|
ditto
|
Cannot locate Thomas Meads in the 1841 census.
Name
|
Role
|
Status
|
Sex
|
Age
|
Birth year
|
Occupation
|
Place of birth
|
Margaret Meads
|
Head
|
Widow
|
F
|
66
|
1785
|
Chair Woman
|
Coddington, Nottinghamshire
|
Table 4 – 1851: Household of Margaret
Meads, Epperstone (next to Cutting Mill).[8]
Name
|
Role
|
Status
|
Sex
|
Age
|
Birth year
|
Occupation
|
Place of birth
|
Thomas Maids [Meads]
|
Head
|
Widower
|
M
|
80
|
1771
|
Framework Knitter
|
Hepson [locally pronounced
Epperstone with strong accent]
|
Jane Flinn
|
Servant
|
Widow
|
F
|
59
|
1792
|
House Serv
|
Nottingham
|
Table 5 – 1851: Household of Thomas
Meads, 13 Ferguson Street, Nottingham.[9]
Thomas Meads died on 4 May 1860 at 7 Cavendish Street, Nottingham,
of “natural decay”.[10] He
would have been about 90 years of age but the certificate recorded an exaggerated 99. The
local paper also recorded “On the 4th inst., aged 99, Mr. Thomas
Meads, Cavendish Street, Nottingham”.[11] As
well as the occupation matching that in the 1851 census (framework knitter),
his final address and the census address were very close in the Sneinton area: Ferguson
Street was near the junction of Pipe Street and Southwell Road (south of the
Market), and Cavendish Street was off Colwick Street (west of the Market),
about 200 yards from each other.
Name
|
Role
|
Status
|
Sex
|
Age
|
Birth year
|
Occupation
|
Place of birth
|
Margarett Hallam
|
Head
|
Widow
|
F
|
80
|
1781
|
Chair Woman
|
Cod[d]ington,
Nottinghamshire
|
Table 6 – 1861: Household of Margaret
Hallam. Up[p]er Stret, Epperstone.[12]
Margaret’s occupation of “chair woman” may be found in
several census pages of England and Wales, and it usually confuses people into
looking for strange occupations involving a chair. It is actually a version of “charwoman”,
previously “chare woman” (related to “chore woman”) which was pronounced as
“chair woman”.[13]
We know that Thomas was a widower since 1815, but note that
Margaret was recorded as a widow in 1851; more on this in a moment.
Margaret died in 1869, aged 92, and was buried at
Woodborough St. Swithun on 13 Oct 1869,[14]
just two miles SW of Epperstone, and also the location of her son, Richard, and
his family.
The 1851 census for Margaret (which I didn’t find originally
because it was under Thomas’s surname), and the 1861 census (which Geoffrey and
I were correcting), both confirmed her place-of-birth as Coddington, a village
about 16 miles NE of Epperstone. By comparing the baptism there with later
Hallam marriages in the general area, it was possible to identify her maiden
name as Astling.
Margaret Astling (or As(s)ling,
Ashling) was born 28 Sep 1784 in Coddington, Nottinghamshire, and baptised on
10 Oct 1784 at Coddington All Saints to James (a “taylor” [tailor]) and
Elizabeth.[15]
James had originally married
Elizabeth Taylor on 18 Mar 1775 at Coddington All Saints,[16]
but she died in 1783, aged 52, of “Distemper fever” and was buried 1 Feb 1783
in the same parish.[17] James then married Elizabeth Baker on
22 Jul 1784,[18] and she died
in 1824, aged 80, and was buried 11 Nov 1824.[19] There
were no children by the first marriage and only Margaret by the second.
James was buried 10 Oct 1789 at Coddington All Saints.[20]
Margaret married a Thomas Hallam on
9 Feb 1803 at Screveton St. Wilfrid;[21]
Screveton is a village 8 miles SE of Epperstone. There was no record of any
children with him.
In trying to identify who Thomas Hallam was, I didn't have a
great deal to play with. A good starting point was to assume that he was born
around the same date, i.e. 1784, and living in the general area.
Looking in the 1841 census revealed a possible candidate,
living in the town of Nottingham.
Name
|
Sex
|
Age
|
Birth year
|
Occupation
|
Place of birth
|
Thomas
|
M
|
55
|
1786
|
Taylor
|
Nottinghamshire
|
Sarah
|
F
|
50
|
1791
|
|
ditto
|
Richard
|
M
|
20
|
1821
|
|
ditto
|
Ann
|
F
|
15
|
1826
|
|
ditto
|
Elizabeth Flower (née
Hallam)
|
F
|
25
|
1816
|
|
ditto
|
William Flower
|
M
|
6
|
1835
|
|
ditto
|
Henry Flower
|
M
|
8m
|
1841
|
|
ditto
|
Table 7 – Household of Thomas Hallam,
Needham St., Bingham.[22]
Bingham was a village (now a market town) just 7 miles SE of
Epperstone, but the item that caught my eye was the occupation of “taylor”
[tailor], the same as Margaret Astling’s father.
Working backwards revealed that this Thomas had married
Sarah Astin on 19 Dec 1814 at Nottingham St. Mary,[23]
and had the following children:
Name
|
Baptism
|
Father
|
Mother
|
Father Occ
|
Abode
|
Parish
|
Elizabeth
|
1 Feb 1816
|
Thomas HALLAM
|
Sarah
|
Tailor
|
Newcastle St
|
Nottingham St. Mary
|
Thomas
|
16 Mar 1817
|
Thomas HALLAM
|
Sarah
|
Tailor
|
Ram Yard
|
Nottingham St. Mary
|
Thomas
|
8 Nov 1818
|
Thomas HALLAM
|
Sarah
|
Tailor
|
|
Bingham St. Mary and All
Saints
|
Richard
|
21 Jan 1821
|
Thomas HALLAM
|
Sarah
|
Tailor
|
|
Bingham St. Mary and All
Saints
|
Ann
|
28 Jul 1822
|
Thomas HALLAM
|
Sarah
|
Tailor
|
|
Bingham St. Mary and All
Saints
|
Frances
|
20 Mar 1825
|
Thomas HALLAM
|
Sarah
|
Tailor
|
|
Bingham St. Mary and All Saints
|
Table 8 – Baptisms of children to
Thomas and Sarah Hallam.[24]
So they were married and had their first two children in
Nottingham before moving out to Bingham. Their son, Thomas, was baptised before
and after that move, thus establishing boundaries for the actual date.
Thomas Hallam died in Bingham and was buried 4 Jan 1850 at
Bingham St. Mary and All Saints.[25]
If this is the correct Thomas then it would explain why Margaret Hallam was
recorded as a widow in the 1851 and 1861 censuses. But we first need to tie
this Thomas Hallam to Margaret Astling, and that requires going back one more
generation.
Thomas’s age at death was 68[26]
and that puts his date-of-birth more accurately at 1782 The only workable
candidate baptism for such a Thomas Hallam was the one born 14 Feb 1782 in
Lowdham — a village 2 miles SE of Epperstone — to Thomas and Ann.
This Thomas Hallam (the candidate father) had married Ann
Barnes on 27 May 1779 at Screveton St. Wilfrid,[27]
and they had the following children in clockwork succession:
Name
|
Born
|
Baptism
|
Father
|
Mother
|
Parish
|
Elizth.
|
21 Nov 1779
|
26 Nov 1779
|
Thos. HALLAM
|
Ann
|
Lowdham St. Mary the Virgin
|
Thos.
|
14 Feb 1782
|
17 Feb 1782
|
Thos. HALLAM
|
Ann
|
Lowdham St. Mary the Virgin
|
Frances
|
28 Feb 1785
|
6 Mar 1785
|
Thos. HALLAM
|
Ann
|
Screveton St. Wilfrid
|
Richd.
|
21 Feb 1787
|
25 Feb 1787
|
Thomas HALLAM
|
Ann
|
Screveton St. Wilfrid
|
Ann
|
26 Feb 1789
|
5 Mar 1789
|
Thos. HALLAM
|
Ann
|
Screveton St. Wilfrid
|
Mary
|
5 May 1791
|
8 May 1791
|
Thomas HALLAM
|
Ann
|
Screveton St. Wilfrid
|
George
|
4 Jun 1793
|
7 Jun 1793
|
Thos. HALLAM
|
Ann
|
Screveton St. Wilfrid
|
John
|
29 Aug 1795
|
30 Aug 1795
|
Thos. HALLAM
|
Ann
|
Screveton St. Wilfrid
|
Hannah
|
26 Nov 1797
|
26 Nov 1797
|
Thomas HALLAM
|
Ann
|
Screveton St. Wilfrid
|
Joseph
|
29 Oct 1799
|
3 Nov 1799
|
Thomas HALLAM
|
Ann
|
Screveton St. Wilfrid
|
Phoebe
|
25 Jan 1805
|
27 Jan 1805
|
Thos. HALLAM
|
Anne
|
Screveton St. Wilfrid
|
Matthew
|
2 Oct 1806
|
5 Oct 1806
|
Thos. HALLAM
|
Anne
|
Screveton St. Wilfrid
|
Table 9 – Baptisms of children to
Thomas and Ann Hallam.[28]
This is now looking much more interesting: although Thomas
Hallam junior was baptised in Lowdham, his parents were married in Screveton, and
all his future siblings were baptised there too. This explains why he would
have married Margaret Astling in Screveton.
Thomas Hallam senior died in 1823, aged 69, and was buried
13 Oct 1823 at Screveton St. Wilfrid;[29] his
headstone
is still visible in the churchyard. His wife, Ann, died in 1833, aged 78, and
was buried 26 Dec 1833 at Screveton St. Wilfrid.[30]
These items of information will be called upon later.
This leaves a gap between Feb 1803 and Dec 1814 where we
have no record of the whereabouts of Thomas Hallam junior, and yet his wife (by
then Margaret Hallam) had four children with an unnamed father between Apr 1807
and Jan 1813.
Now these dates are like a beacon to anyone with knowledge
of European history: they are almost exactly the dates of the Napoleonic Wars (1803–1815)
that raged between the French Empire, under Napoleon I, and various coalitions
of European forces — principally the UK. If we can show that he took part then
we would need to explain why he was back by 1814, and what state of mind might have
led his wife to establish a new life during his absence.
I did notice that a Jonathan Hallam — very likely a cousin
of Thomas — from nearby Calverton, had attested on 19 Jul 1804 for twenty years
service in the 41st and 69th Regiments of Foot,[31]
so there was no question of a precedent or that the wars were big news even in
rural Nottinghamshire.
About this time, I came across a book written by two cousin
sailors, John Tregerthen Short and Thomas Williams, who were captured in the
English Channel, in March 1804, while transporting £80,000 worth of sheet
copper from the Thames to Devonport dockyard, Plymouth, and describing their
hardships as prisoners in France until April 1814.[32]
If Thomas had been a prisoner then Margaret may have been unsure of his
whereabouts, or even whether he was alive.
Records relating to military service during these wars are
incomplete, and not all service records have survived. There were several
references to individuals named Thomas Hallam, but most could be dismissed on
the grounds of either age, service years, or place of birth. Although there was
no sign of a service record for Margaret’s Thomas, there was an interesting
record of a Thomas Hallam being a prisoner during the latter years of the war.
The document recorded the depositing of prisoners at
Briançon prison, in the French Alps, between 1 Jan 1811 and 31 Mar 1811. In
particular, there’s an entry for a 28-year-old English fusilier, Thomas Hallam,
of the 89th Regiment of Foot, captured at Malaga on 16 Oct 1810 (implying
he was born 1782), and admitted to the prison 11 Mar 1811.[33]
The birth date is spot-on but there is no record of exactly where he was born
in England.
The 89th
Regiment of Foot was under the command of Lord Blayney and suffered a
well-documented defeat at the Battle of Fuengirola
(province of Malaga, southern Spain) in mid-October 1810. Blayney and many of
his soldiers were captured and held as prisoners of war for the next four
years. The common soldier and sailor was treated badly during their captivity,
and the account by Short and Williams was in stark contrast to that by Lord
Blayney (Narrative of a Forced Journey
through Spain and France as a Prisoner of War in the Years 1810 to 1814
(London: E. Kerby, 1814)), which read more like a French vacation.
About 1,950 Briançon prisoners were moved to Maubeuge
(Netherlands) during early 1814,[34]
and it seems that Thomas Hallam may have bumped into those sailors, Short and
Williams, along the way.
According to Short:
12 Jan 1814 — Served three pounds
of bread per man, snow falling all the day; sometimes we were taken above the
knees, which made our march very difficult, the guards being as tired as the
prisoners. Some of our people were ready to drop under the fatigue of the
journey, yet I believe the whole of us came to anchor in our long-wished-for
port, the City of Rheims, after marching this terrible day twenty-seven miles.
We were conducted to a jail that
had formerly been the residence of the Bishop, near the fine cathedral. At this
city the Kings of France were formerly crowned. In the jail we joined 400 other
English prisoners of war, the last party from Briancon in the Alps, bound for a
place named Meubeuge [sic].[35]
According to Williams:
A few days before we made our
exit a detachment of new prisoners, soldiers taken in Spain, were brought to
Briancon, and they were served clothes by order of Lord Blaney.[36]
Our orders were to go to a place
called Meubeuge [sic], in the
Netherlands, as far north nearly as they could send us, and prisoners from the
northern depots were ordered to Briancon, so that the different parties crossed
each other daily on the march. On our arrival at Meubeuge we were put into a
barracks that had formerly been a depot for Spanish prisoners. We had liberty
to go into the town to buy what we wanted.
We arrived at Meubeuge on the 18th
of January, 1814, about 1,500 British prisoners of war in all, and were put
into a large barracks — nineteen men in each room — having our usual allowance
from the French, and one bundle of straw for each man to lie on, but no
covering, although the weather was very severe, and no wood was given us for
fire to cook our victuals with, so we were obliged to take part of our bed each
day for that purpose.[37]
The town of Maubeuge came under siege towards the end of
March 1814 and the prisoners were eventually freed during the beginning of
April 1814.[38]
As usual, a timeline will help correlate all these events
and allow us to infer any causal links between them. In this case, though,
we’ll divide the events into three parallel timelines according to which
personae they relate to, and this should demonstrate the validity (or
otherwise) of the above conjectures.
Date
|
Margaret Hallam and
Thomas Meads
|
Margaret Astling
and Thomas Hallam
|
Thomas Hallam in
France
|
1 Mar 1772
|
Baptism on Thomas Meads
|
|
|
14 Feb 1782
|
|
Birth of Thomas Hallam of
Lowdham
|
|
28 Sep 1784
|
|
Birth of Margaret Astling
of Coddington
|
|
9 Apr 1792
|
Marriage of Thomas to
Martha Beiton
|
|
|
8 Jul 1792
|
Baptism of John to Thomas
and Martha
|
|
|
26 Jan 1794
|
Baptism of Mary to Thomas
and Martha
|
|
|
31 May 1795
|
Baptism of Joseph to Thomas
and Martha
|
|
|
17 Jul 1798
|
|
Burial of Margaret’s mother
at Coddington
|
|
5 Aug 1798
|
Baptism of Martha to Thomas
and Martha
|
|
|
9 Feb 1803
|
|
Marriage of Margaret to
Thomas Hallam at Screveton
|
|
5 Dec 1804
|
Baptism of Hannah to Thomas
and Martha
|
|
|
11 Feb 1807
|
Baptism of Thomas to Thomas
and Martha
|
|
|
6 Apr 1807
|
Baptism of James to
Margaret
|
|
|
9 Oct 1808
|
Baptism of Mary to Margaret
|
|
|
11 Jun 1810
|
Baptism of Henry to
Margaret
|
|
|
16 Oct 1810
|
|
|
Thomas captured at Malaga
|
11 Mar 1811
|
|
|
Thomas moved to Briançon
prison
|
17 Jan 1813
|
Baptism of Alice to Thomas
and Martha
|
|
|
31 Jan 1813
|
Baptism of Charlotte to
Margaret
|
|
|
Jan 1814
|
|
|
Thomas moved to Maubeuge
prison
|
Apr 1814
|
|
|
Thomas freed from Maubeuge
|
19 Dec 1814
|
|
Marriage of Thomas to Sarah
Astin in Nottingham
|
|
26 Feb 1815
|
Baptism of William to
Thomas and Martha
|
|
|
8 Dec 1815
|
Burial of Martha, wife of
Thomas
|
|
|
8 Nov 1818
|
|
Thomas jnr re-baptised at
Bingham
|
|
23 Feb 1819
|
Baptism of Elizabeth to
Margaret and Thomas
|
|
|
2 Mar 1821
|
Baptism of Richard to
Margaret and Thomas
|
|
|
12 Nov 1823
|
Baptism of Robert to
Margaret and Thomas
|
|
|
15 Feb 1826
|
Baptism of Sarah to
Margaret and Thomas
|
|
|
11 Jul 1831
|
Baptism of James to
Margaret and Thomas
|
|
|
4 Jan 1850
|
|
Burial of Thomas Hallam at
Bingham
|
|
4 May 1860
|
Death of Thomas Meads in
Nottingham
|
|
|
13 Oct 1869
|
Burial of Margaret Hallam
at Woodboro’
|
|
|
Table 10 – Timeline for Thomas Meads,
Margaret Hallam, and Thomas Hallam.
Margaret would have been in a difficult situation here. In
England and Wales, the offence of bigamy was created by The
Bigamy Act 1603 (1 Jas. 1 c.11). This declared it to be not just an offence
but a capital felony, although seven years of continual separation, "…the
one of them not knowing the other to be living within that time…", was a
valid defence. Other than annulment of the previous marriage, another defence
was divorce a mensa et thoro (legal
separation) but the subsequent marriage would still be void. In The
Bigamy Act 1795 (35 Geo. III c.67), capital punishment was changed to
transportation to the colonies, and by The
Offences against the Person Act 1828 (9 Geo. IV c.31), sec.22, the
punishment was "... transported beyond the Seas for the Term of Seven
Years, or to be imprisoned, with or without hard Labour, in the Common Gaol or
House of Correction, for any Term not exceeding Two Years". Following The
Offences against the Person Act 1861 (24 & 25 Vict. c.100), sec.57,
guilty parties were then "... liable, at the Discretion of the Court, to
be kept in Penal Servitude for any Term not exceeding Seven Years and not less
than Three Years,—or to be imprisoned for any Term not exceeding Two Years, with
or without Hard Labour".
In effect, at the time Margaret conceived her children
bigamy would have been a serious offence. If she was unsure of whether her
husband (Thomas Hallam) was still alive, and hadn’t received any communication
for seven years, then she would still have to consider that if he returned then
any subsequent marriage would be void.
Indeed, this appears to have been the case, and my
conclusion is that Thomas Hallam returned from the Napoleonic Wars in the
spring of 1814. This would have been a less than happy reunion, having found
his wife with several children conceived in his absence. But her marriage to him
would still have been valid, and she
would remain Margaret Hallam; in those days, a divorce would have required a
Private Act of Parliament, and so would be out of the question for anyone
except the wealthy elite. She was also settled in Epperstone with a large
family and would not have been in a position to move far away to where she
wasn’t known, and risk remarriage there. It would appear that Thomas took this
route instead.
In summary, Thomas Hallam left for the Napoleonic Wars
sometime between his marriage to Margaret Astling (Feb 1803) and the conception
of her first child (Jul 1806). Margaret became involved with Thomas Meads
during this time, but he was still married to Martha Beiton. As a result, he
was not named on their first four births. Thomas Hallam returned from France in
April 1814 to find an untenable situation — he was legally married to a woman
who was no longer his wife. As she
was settled in Epperstone, Thomas Hallam moved to the town of Nottingham, about
10 miles SW of Epperstone, and remarried later that same year. This would have
been illegal, even though it was understandable and they had very few options.
The first wife of Thomas Meads, Martha, died in December
1815, and this paved the way for both of their names to appear on subsequent
baptisms. Since her first marriage was still binding, though, they could not
marry each other.
Thomas Hallam and his new wife, Sarah, moved back into that
rural area — Bingham, only 7 miles from Margaret — in 1818. This was risky but
he seemed to have got away with it. It is likely that he had close family in
the area and so the risk was justifiable.
Although a family tree will capture the lineage of these
people and their children, it is less able to capture the sequence of events or
their geography.
It initially troubled me that the term “base” was being used
for the children of a married woman when the father was not the husband, rather
than for the children of a single woman. However, I was consoled by the fact
that the children of a single woman seduced by a married man would have been so
termed. There was still the description of Margaret Hallam as “spinster” in the
Bishops’ Transcripts (Table 1); was this simply a toning-down of the
information for the bishop, or was the church unaware of her true predicament?
Margaret was married in the neighbouring parish of Screveton
St. Wilfrid, only about 8 miles away, and the commonality of her surname would
mean that the local vicar must have been aware of her situation.
Prior to the Poor Law Amendment Act 1834, a wife and any
legitimate children all took the father’s parish of settlement, and this could
result in them being a financial burden on the parish if they became destitute.
It is interesting in this case that Margaret and her base-born children all appear
to have been accepted in the settlement parish of Thomas Meads. The question of
who the father was of the earlier four children would therefore have been of
great interest to the parish officers, and the Nottinghamshire Archive may hold
bastardy documents for that parish.
If it was by mutual agreement that Margaret remained in
Epperstone and Thomas Hallam moved to the town — which is an entirely
reasonable presumption — then there may have been a divorce a mensa et thoro granted by the church
courts, and it is worth checking the Archive for any record of this.
Geoffrey Martin pointed me to another candidate for Thomas
Hallam overseas: a landsman in the Royal Navy who, on 15 Sep 1803, allotted
part of his pay to his mother in Bingham — the town where Thomas Hallam later
moved.[39]
However, we’ve already established that both the parents of Thomas Hallam were
living until 1823, and were resident in Screveton.
The transcribed extracts for the baptism of Margaret Astling
(see note [15])
and the death of her father’s first wife, Elizabeth, (see note [17])
both have a note saying “family details on fiche”. It is essential to follow
this up and find just what these details are, even if they turn out only to be
for Margaret’s parents rather than for her.
I will follow these avenues up in a later post.
[1]
Nottinghamshire Family History Society (NottsFHS), Parish Register Baptism
Index, CD-ROM,
database (Nottingham, 1 Jan 2013), database version 3.0, entries for mother’s surname of Hallam, Epperstone
Holy Cross parish; CD hereinafter cited as NottsFHS-Baptisms.
[3]
NottsFHS,
Parish Register Marriage Index, CD-
ROM, database (Nottingham,
1 Jan 2013), database version 3.0, entry for John Meads and Alice Tomlinson, 27 Apr 1768, Epperstone Holy Cross; CD hereinafter cited as NottsFHS-Marriages.
[4]
NottsFHS-Marriages, entry for Thomas Meads and Martha Beiton, 9
Apr 1792, Trowell St. Helen parish.
[5]
NottsFHS-Baptisms, entries for father of “tho% m%d%” and mother
of “martha” in parishes of Trowell St. Helen and Epperstone Holy Cross;
tabulated entry for Mary was not available in this source, as indicated in the
tablenote.
[6]
NottsFHS,
Parish Register
Burial Index, CD-ROM, database
(Nottingham, 1 Jan 2013), database version 3.0, entry for Martha Meads, 8 Dec 1815,
Epperstone Holy Cross; CD
hereinafter cited as NottsFHS-Burials.
[7]
"1841 England Census", database with images, Ancestry (www.ancestry.co.uk :
accessed 9 Jun 2017), household of
John
Pacey (age 35); citing HO
107/865, bk.10, fo.10, p.14; The National
Archives of the UK (TNA).
[8]
"1851 England Census"
(accessed 9
Jun 2017), household of Margaret
Meads (age 66); citing HO 107/2134,
fo.188, p.12; TNA.
[9]
"1851 England Census"
(accessed 9
Jun 2017), household of Thomas
Maids [Meads] (age 80); citing
HO 107/2132, fo.484, p.32; TNA.
[10]
England, death certificate for Thomas
Meads, died
4 May 1860; citing 7b/153/5, registered Nottingham 1860/Jun
[Q2]; General Register Office (GRO), Southport.
[12]
"1861 England Census"
(accessed 9
Jun 2017), household of Margarett
[Margaret] Hallam (age 80); citing
RG 9/2471,
fo.54, p.6; TNA.
[16]
NottsFHS-Marriages, entry for James Ashling [Astling] and
Elizabeth Taylor, 18 Mar 1775, Coddington All Saints.
[18]
NottsFHS-Marriages, entry for James Asling [Astling] and Elizabeth
Baker, 22 Jul 1784, Coddington All Saints.
[21]
NottsFHS-Marriages, entry for Margt. Asling [Margaret Astling]
and Thomas Hallam, 9 Feb 1803, Screveton St. Wilfrid.
[22]
"1841 England Census", database with images, Ancestry (www.ancestry.co.uk :
accessed 10 Jun 2017), household of
Thomas
Hallam (age 55); citing
HO 107/853, bk.1, fo.53,
p.30; TNA.
[24]
NottsFHS-Baptisms, entries for “Thomas Hallam” and “Sarah” where
father’s occupation is “Tailor”.
[26]
Online transcriptions
of GRO birth and death index, General
Register Office (https://www.gro.gov.uk/gro/content/certificates/indexes_search.asp
: accessed 10 June 2017), entry for Thomas Hallam; citing Bingham Union, 1850,
Mar [Q1], vol.15:337.
[27]
NottsFHS-Marriages, entry for Thomas Hallam and Ann Barnes, 27
May 1779, Screveton St. Wilfrid.
[28]
NottsFHS-Baptisms, entries for “Tho% Hallam” and “Ann%” in
parishes of Lowdham St. Mary the Virgin and Screveton St. Wilfrid.
[31]
“British Army Service
Records 1760-1915”, database with images, Findmypast
(www.findmypast.co.uk : accessed 11 Jun 2017), discharge
papers for Jonathan Hallam, born 1785 in Cavlerton, Nottinghamshire, attested 19
Jul 1804; citing Chelsea Pensioners British Army Service Records 1760-1913,
archive ref: WO 97, box 819, box record no. 5; TNA.
[32]
Short and Williams, Prisoners of War in France
from 1804 to 1814: Being the Adventures of John Tregerthen Short and Thomas
Williams of St. Ives Cornwall (London: Duckworth
& Co., 1914).
[33]
“Prisoners of War 1715-1945”, database with images, Findmypast
(www.findmypast.co.uk : accessed 11 Jun 2017), entry for
Thomas Hallom [Hallam], 89th Regiment of Foot, entry no. 888; citing
Register of British POWs Prisons A-G, France,
1787-1820, archive ref: ADM 103/467 PART 1;
TNA.
[39]
"British Royal Navy Allotment Declarations 1795-1852", database with images,
Findmypast (www.findmypast.co.uk :
accessed 11 Jun 2017), entry for
Thomas Hallam, Topaze vessel, pay book no. 151; citing
Registers of allotments and allotment declarations, archive ref: ADM 27/9; TNA.